Putting the Zen on My 2008

New Year Resolution - Self Deception

New year resolutions, planners, to-do lists, rainlendars - I’ve tried ‘em all but nothing has ever worked for me. It’s either the number of tasks that needs to be done is just dauntingly overwhelming OR maybe I’m just waaay too distracted with Gmail, TV, vlogging and of course - Twitter. Now, the start of my 2008 has fallen again into this endless, ugly cycle of procrastination and downright laziness; I don’t know how to manage anything anymore.

Thanks to Karlo - I discovered this blog which offers just what I needed. I’ve already read tons of how-to-manage-your-life articles, mostly on Reader’s Digest, but it’s just hard for me to self-check every time I need to be reminded. But now, thanks to RSS feeds, whenever I look at my live bookmarks, I immediately remember I have a life to attend to.

Now, let me bore you some more with the first article I will be focusing on this month - the 7 Essential Tips to Make 2008 Your Best Year Ever. 2007 has been pretty kind to me - but I was just lucky. With the way I do things, I feel like I don’t deserve it. Now, with this guide, I predict that this 2008, luck will again be on my side - and I’ll feel good having it for once. Let us run through these tips, shall we?

1. One Goal. I have already this ultimate goal - at least for this year’s first quarter, which is TO GRADUATE this April. In order to achieve this smoothly, I have prepared the following subgoals for the coming months:

  • Finish my Thesis Web Application by the last week of January
  • Finish my Thesis Documentation by the last week of February
  • Finish all my requirements for graduation by the 2nd week of March
  • Enjoy my remaining stay in the university on the last 2 weeks of March :(

The blog suggests that I put my goal on my wall or my desktop wallpaper - make it my personal mantra. Therefore, I made this personalized wallpaper; you can download and use it if you are in the same predicament as I am:

2. Create a New Habit. Mine: Work on my thesis 5 hours a day, 5 days a week. That should put my social life in a coma indefinitely.

3. Take Action Now. I’ll be making this habit the most important thing I do every day. It shall be the first task I will finish each day.

4. Simplify. It simply states that I should identify the 4-5 most important things in my life RIGHT NOW. By doing this, I get to simplify my life - avoiding overwhelming number of goals to achieve. So here are my Top 5:

  • God
  • Family & Friends
  • Graduation
  • Making Films
  • Health (Yes, I wanna live forever longer)

5. Focus on Happiness. ‘Nuff said.

6. Schedule Time for You, and Your Loved Ones. The tip says that at least one thing on my list should be something I love to do and another thing should be spending time with people I have fun with. That’s why “making films” is there, which I normally achieve through vlogging. :)

7. Learn to Focus. This means less Gmail parking, Twitter updating and Entrecard dropping for web addicts like me. I will be alloting 30 minutes for those each day AFTER I’ve done my 3 MITs (Most Important Things) for the day.

One last thing, the article suggests that I hold myself accountable to other people if ever I go back to my Eviiil ways (read: slacking around). I need to commit to my new habits. With this, I shall be making this post my official “Report Thread” where I will be posting (through comments) my 3 MITs everyday and whether or not I have successfully accomplished them. Yes my friends, I’m making myself accountable to YOU. So whenever you find yourself having nothing better to do with your free 5 minutes of time, you should may visit this post and call me out on sitting on my lazy ass too much or whatever craziness that comes to mind.

It is official. This is my first boring post of 2008. Hurray.

Wish me luck. :)

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13 Comments »

Comment by utakGAGO
2008-01-05 19:48:20

Hey, what’s a rainlendar? And what’s that for?

And nice comic strip. At least there’s this good side of imposing those resolutions.

Comment by admin
2008-01-06 02:28:28

Hi Kevin. :)

A Rainlendar is basically a calender on your desktop where you can schedule your events and tasks (complete with notifications and alarms).

 
 
Comment by gibbs
2008-01-05 21:22:11

this sounds great! i need something like this too. :) go for your goals, coy, and see ya this april when you’re wearing your toga. good luck! :)

Comment by admin
2008-01-06 02:29:04

Thanks for the support, gibbs! :)

 
 
Comment by Poyt Subscribed to comments via email
2008-01-05 23:21:22

We should be waiting for the graduation video this April huh? :) Yeah, we will whip your lazy arse alright.

“I need to do something like this too.” - Yeah, Gibbs, me too. Let’s whip each other’s arses. Hmm.. that didn’t sound right.

GOOD LUCK, COY! FOCUS!

Comment by admin
2008-01-06 02:31:37

You’re so right! We should all be Goal Buddies! Haha! Thanks Poyt! :)

 
 
Comment by admin
2008-01-06 02:35:54

3 Most Important Things for Sunday:

Org Meeting
CSS for JSP Pages (Thesis)
Workout

Comment by admin
2008-01-07 12:16:57

My first day is a failure. I only accomplished my first MIT which took a lot of time and emotional baggage. Whatta crazy Sunday!

Whoop my ass now, please?

 
 
Comment by Jake Subscribed to comments via email
2008-01-06 06:05:57

Eto lang masasabi go “GOODLUCK”, hehehe!

 
Comment by renz
2008-01-07 08:46:30

wow! ngayon lang ulit ako magcocomment sa blog mo! busy kasi sa work, churi na…

hindi pala nagwowork sayo ang planner. reregaluhan sana kita ng starbucks planner. haha! joke lang.

naaalala ko last year, cram to da max kami sa thesis. dodblehin mo nga lang ang efforts mo kasi “break” na kayo ng thesismate mo. haha! goodluck! congrats, centennial grad!

Comment by admin
2008-01-07 12:12:24

Haha. Glad to hear from you again Renz! Naging busy ata tayo sa kainan this holidays. :P

Kailangan ko pa rin ng planner! Haha. Oh well, nag-order na ako ng Centennial Planner so pwede na yun. LOL.

thanks for the support man! See you soon in the corporate world! (may ganun. LOL) :P

 
 
Comment by admin
2008-01-07 12:28:04

Report for Monday:

Big Rocks of the Week:

Finish the JSP Pages and Solve Database Connection Problems (Thesis)
UP Centennial Kick-Off Celebration and Trinoma Food Tour Vlog Coverage
Agenda for Officers’ First GA of the Year
Bro’s 21st Birthday!

2 MITs of the Day

4-5 Hours of Thesis Work
Start with my Resume

 
Comment by admin
2008-01-13 08:54:40

Big Rocks of the Week

ALL THESIS FUNCTIONALITIES
Trinoma Video/People Power Video

3 MITs

5 Hours of Thesis
Agenda for KADBin
Video

 
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